🌸 What My Hashtags Mean: Softness, Strength, and Being Seen

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Hi, I’m Alice—and at the bottom of every blog post, you’ll find a quiet little line of hashtags. To some, they might just look like social media tags. But to me, they’re tiny love notes. Markers of my journey. Soft declarations of who I am.

If you’ve ever wondered what they mean—or if you're trying to find the words for your own path—this post is for you.

✨ #AliceInYogaPants

That’s me.
I live in yoga pants, diapers, and gentle visibility. This tag is more than a name—it’s a signature. A way of saying, “This is my life, and I’m not hiding anymore.”

🌊 #CrinkleAndFlow

This is my rhythm.
The crinkle of my diapers and the flow of my yoga practice are both a part of me. I didn’t choose them to match—but somehow, they do. It’s a tag for movement, healing, and being proud of what makes me different.

🧘‍♂️ #DiaperedYoga

I show up on the mat padded and proud.
This tag is for those of us practicing yoga while wearing what we need—and still moving with intention, breath, and grace.

🌱 #VisibleHealing

Because my healing doesn’t happen in the dark.
I walk around diapered, glittery, hugged by yoga pants and hope. This tag is for scars that don’t need to stay secret, and for healing that deserves to be seen.

💗 #SoftnessIsStrength

This one carries weight.
I used to think I had to be hard to be safe. Now I know the real strength is being soft—and staying soft in a world that tried to harden me.

🌸 #SelfAcceptance

This isn’t just something I preach—it’s something I practice.
Diapers, plastic pants, and pastels... I used to hide. Now I smile. This tag is my ongoing promise to love who I am becoming.

👜 #ToteBagDiaries

My tote bag is part of my story.
Inside it: diaper supplies, baby wipes, fresh shorts and top. This tag celebrates the quiet, everyday rituals that help me feel soft, prepared, and whole.

🌿 #PelvicFloorHealing

Yoga has helped me reconnect with my body after trauma.
This tag focuses on the strength beneath the softness—postures, breath, and movements that support urinary incontinence and dignity alike.

👗 #OutfitDiary

Every outfit I wear is a decision to be seen.
This tag is for the short shorts, pastel leggings, plastic pants, and crop tops that hug my truth. I dress to feel like Alice—and I post to remember why.

🧘‍♀️ #SupportSunday

A weekly moment of rest, reflection, and healing.
This tag marks posts where I share resources, pose spotlights, and gentle truths about living diapered, visible, and loved.

If any of these speak to you, I hope you carry them too. Use them. Whisper them. Let them be reminders that you are not alone. And if you ever want to tag your own softness, use #IAmSoftToo so I can find you, cheer you on, and say, “I see you, baby.”

Crinkle and flow,
Alice
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#AliceInYogaPants, #DiaperedYoga, #VisibleHealing, #SoftnessIsStrength, #SelfAcceptance, #ToteBagDiaries, #SupportSunday, #PelvicFloorHealing, #OutfitDiary #ProudlyPadded #SoftlyConfident


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