Our Values & Expectations

 

🌿 Our Values & Expectations

Crinkle & Flow: Asheville 2026 is a grounded, gentle, and affirming retreat. We gather to create a safe, supportive space for those living with incontinence—or who choose to wear diapers—to connect, move, and grow in peace and softness.

These are the values that guide us, and the expectations we ask all attendees to honor:

✨ Our Core Values 

Dignity

Every attendee is a whole, worthy human being. We honor the dignity of wearing diapers as a valid, sometimes necessary, sometimes chosen part of life.

Softness & Strength

This is a retreat for anyone—men, women, and nonbinary folks—who embrace or are exploring gentleness, comfort, and quiet strength. We welcome softness, not performance. There’s room here for masculine, feminine, and nonbinary expression, all held with equal respect.

Authenticity

We show up as we are—not as a performance or fantasy, but as real people seeking community, movement, and self-acceptance.

Respect for Boundaries

We are a no-touch, no-play retreat. Consent is always required—for conversation, sharing, photos, and space. There is no sexual activity, exhibitionism, or roleplay allowed during the retreat.

Privacy & Discretion

What’s shared in our circle stays in the circle. Attendees are expected to honor the confidentiality and vulnerability of others.

📜 What We Expect from Attendees

Dress Comfortably, Respectfully

Leggings, yoga pants, diapers, and plastic pants are welcome. You may wear what makes you feel safe and soft. However, please avoid deliberately provocative or fetishized attire. This is a space for real-life comfort and expression, not performance or play.

Leave Performance at the Door

This is not a space for sissification play, forced regression, or public exhibition. If these are meaningful parts of your life, we honor that—but they are not part of this retreat.

Be Present

Participate fully. Listen deeply. Share if you’re moved to. Respect silence if someone else needs it. Be open to connection, but never push for it.

Honor Each Other’s Humanity

We are people on different paths. We may dress differently, move differently, or express ourselves differently—but every soul here deserves kindness and care.

Zero Tolerance for Creepy, Sexual, or Predatory Behavior

Anyone who violates the dignity or comfort of another attendee will be asked to leave immediately, without refund.

🤍 Who This Is For

You might be:

• Living with or choosing diapers, and craving connection without shame
• A man, woman, or nonbinary person seeking softness, truth, and real companionship
• A caregiver, partner, or nurturer walking this path with someone you love
• Someone tired of apologizing for wearing what brings you comfort—like leggings, yoga         pants, or tunics
• A quiet seeker of self-acceptance and authenticity

You don’t have to be perfect.

You do have to be kind.

If that’s you—welcome home.

With softness and gratitude,

Alice – Founder & Organizer of Crinkle & Flow

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